Being a Wife


Hello my Beautiful Queens,

Sometimes as wives we tend to be selfish, always wanting our way, trying to be controlling, never want to compromise with our spouses. Most of the time, it’s not the other spouse that causing the confusion, it’s US! We as women has to die to ourselves and allow the Holy Spirit to work within us. I know it’s difficult living with someone that always put you down, never take you out, don’t buy you flowers, don’t encourage you, don’t help around the house or with the kids, not willing to pay the bills on time or help with the bills, and that can be hurtful and sometimes leave you bitter and resentful.

However, you might be in a marriage that’s holding on by thin ice, and you don’t know whether to leave or stay in it. You have been hurt, feeling rejected by the one person who should have you back at all times, but it seems like you’re sleeping with the enemy. You’re having all these crazy thoughts about doing harm to your spouse or being with another man, but that’s not the way, my Queen. God see the tears flowing and your heart being crumble, but He want you to look at Him and not at your situation. It’s okay to cry and get it out, don’t hold nothing back, come to God with boldness and tell him how you feel. Be sincere and real! You’re building your relationship with Christ everyday and your strength is being renewed.

Therefore, we as wives don’t realize this, but we have “strong mental powers”, we have the ability to change every situation. You may ask how is that possible, let me reinforce what God said, Gen: 2:18- “And the Lord God said, It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a companion who will help him”. The key word is “Help”. That’s our responsibility as wives to help and  not destroy our husbands but pray for them daily. For example, if your husband has committed adultery, apply the Word of God when you’re praying. Your prayer should be something like this, “Mark 10:9- Let no one separate them, for God has joined them together. Also, pray that conviction shall reign and rule on them both until they repent and turn from their wicked ways. Decree blessing over the woman and don’t curse her with your tongue.  Decree a separate to form between her and your husband. We have to pray all the time for our family.  It’s not easy being a wife because the enemy is always lurking around who he can devour.

Nevertheless, you may be reading this and still want to leave your husband. I can’t tell you to leave or stay because you need to allow the Holy Spirit to speak to you about your situation before you take matters into your own hands.  Jesus said, If you will acknowledge me in all your ways, I will direct your footstep. Everybody situation is different than others that why getting wise counsel from God is the Best way. Now, I know if you have peace about a decision than that’s God way of saying yes. If you don’t and he hasn’t said nothing to you, don’t move. Be obedient. We know marriage is work and it’s even difficult when one spouse is trying to make it work and the other acts as if he don’t care, but if you will hold on and obey Christ, change is coming.

Finally, if our husband doesn’t treat us right this is what God says about that, 1 Peter 3:7- “In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat her with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. If you don’t treat her as you should, your prayers will not be heard”. That’s a Fact!!! God Word does not come back Void!! In order for that scripture to come to pass, we must still submit to our husband as God stated in Eph 5:22- “You wives will submit to your husbands as you do to the Lord”. No matter if he is right or wrong just obey and watch God step into your marriage.


Here are a few Decree’s you can speak over your husband life. Now, if you’re in a desperate situation, then I recommend buying holy oil and apply it to his head while he is sleeping.  Even inside his shoes, clothes, wallet, and whatever belongs to him and pray and cover it under the Blood of Jesus. For those who have the power of the Holy Ghost, start praying in your unknown language and watch the Power of God touch your husband in ways you have never seen. I have heard this saying, “if you want different results, you have to be willing to do something you never done before”.

Decree and Declared over Husband:
My Husband is Faithful and Honest
My Husband is a Great Provider and Protector
My Husband loves me as Christ Loves the Church
My Husband Respect, Honor, Celebrate me
(Husband Name) is a Great Husband, Wonderful Father, and Awesome Friend
My Husband listen and obey the Holy Spirit
My Husband direct and lead his family in Truth
My Husband is Compassionate and Patience
My Husband control his anger
My Husband speak kinds words to his wife and kids.
My Husband resolve conflicts in a calm manner.

Now Wives, here are your Decree’s over yourself
I will respect, honor, and celebrate my Husband
I will listen without arguing.
I will love my husband
I will be faithful and honest to my husband
I will control my tongue and anger
I will encourage my husband and not put him down.
I will allow my husband to lead our home.
I am a Great Wife, Wonderful Mother, and Awesome Friend.
My Husband and I are Great Friends
Our Love is being renewed everyday for each other.

These decree’s may not happen over night, but if you speak everyday, morning, and night you will start to see change. You are changing your future into a Blessed Atmosphere.

As Always,

Much Love,

A. Woods

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