Good Morning! Showing compassion/gentleness is one of the fruit of the spirit. You should always demonstrate/show compassion/gentleness to people. Stop trying to pre-judge people based off what you think or how you feel. You do not know what’s in a person heart but God. He knows the heart of every man/woman. If you’re going to correct someone do it out of love.
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.” Galatians 5:22-23 NKJV