Special message for married couples. Intimacy is a special union that was ordained by the Lord. The Lord created that union for two people to come together, cherish one another, respect, love, and gentle towards each other. Many times marriages suffer hardship is because one or both parties heart is harden. We tend to used sexual intimacy as a weapon. If the other spouse didn’t do or say what the spouse wanted that person tend to withhold sexual intimacy from the other. However,it could be the person is tired, not in the mood, or not attracted to their spouse and that’s why the intimacy is gone. You should never withhold sexual intimacy from your spouse. You are allowing the enemy a foot hold in your marriage which will cause the other person to look else where for the desire attention that’s not being met. Also, no one should have to beg their spouse for intimacy/sexual relations. Eventually, the one that’s begging will soon lose interested with their spouse. Your bodies do not belong to yourself according to the Word of God. Whether you’re tired or not you should always meet your spouse needs. If not sometimes adultery take place which you can not play the victim. You played a part of your spouse going outside the marriage because you didn’t meet their needs. Communicate is extremely important in a marriage. Everyone that’s married need to be mindful of the vows you spoken during the course of your union unto the Lord. You should take those vows serious. Don’t allow the enemy to destroy your marriage. If you’re not careful the enemy will destroy it. In the meantime, pray for your marriage.
“The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control.” 1 Corinthians 7:4-5 NIV & NLT