Good Morning Beloved!
Being single is not a curse. Most singles have their own agenda of what age they’re getting married, how long before they have kids, and how they will live happily ever after. Sounds like a fairy tail because when the Lord is directing your life, He doesn’t have limits or restrictions. He doesn’t look at age to determine when it’s time but He looks at the heart. Many singles only want a companion for selfish gain. It could be to satisfy fleshy wants, financial security, loneilness, or more. If you continue to dwell on being married, talking about it and how long you should wait and what, when, or where it will happen, you are idolizing marriage. Being married is your #1 concern and the Lord knows that if He gave you the man/woman, you wouldn’t continue your relationship with Him. Also, how can you say you’re waiting on the Lord but still being intimate with ex’s. Don’t expect the Lord to bless your mess. If you will take your mind off being married and focus on your goals/dreams, it will happen sooner than you think. Let the Lord change you from the inside to prepare you for marriage. Marriage takes work and you have to be willing to fight the good fight of faith. Prayer, fasting, and warfare are an essential tools for marriage. Are you ready?
“Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.” Psalm 51:10 ESV
“Put me on trial, LORD, and cross-examine me. Test my motives and my heart.” Psalm 26:2 NLT